QUEZON CITY, (PIA) — In the midst of bustling neighborhoods and vibrant city life, a unique generation stands out, their stories echoing through the annals of time. They are the Golden Gays — individuals who have weathered societal storms, transcended prevailing prejudices, and now embody resilience and authenticity in their golden years.
Ramon ‘Monique‘ Busa, President of Golden Gays, explained the significance of their group during a radio program of Philippine Information Agency Director-General Jose Torres Jr. over RP1 738AM, saying, “We are called Golden Gays because our members range from 60 to 93 years old, with active members like Noelito Munyer, who, at 93, still actively participates in our endeavors.”
Golden Gays, an organization based in Pasay City, was established by then Councilor Justo Justo in the 1970s and formally registered on November 4, 2002.
Unlike conventional familial structures, this community is forged by a tapestry of unique life experiences and a shared vision for inclusive living tailored to their distinct needs, embracing them as integral members of the LGBTQIA+ community.
Golden Gays provides a safe haven where every member feels at home, a sanctuary they deserve.
Busa shared, “Our founder noticed many of our peers sleeping on carts, elderly gay individuals neglected by their families, with nowhere to turn, resorting to sleeping in unconventional places, even in cultural centers.
“When this initiative began, many homeless elderly gay men were also seen. As a peer, our founder sought to aid and support neglected elderly gay individuals by establishing this home for the Golden Gays,” he added.
He elaborated on their mission, stating, “Our primary objective is to offer shelter, sustenance, care, and compassion to marginalized and forsaken older gay individuals in Pasay and neighboring communities.”
Reflecting on the societal norms of the 1950s and 60s, Busa highlighted the harsh realities faced by gay individuals within families, often leading to their abandonment and ostracization.
“During those times, having a gay relative, sibling, or child meant being treated differently — almost as if condemned. As they aged, they became burdens to their families, gradually becoming outcasts, abandoned even by their closest kin and companions,” he narrated.
The Home for the Golden Gays currently houses 17 active members who showcase their talents, passions, and skills in every performance, illustrating their resilience and unwavering spirit in the face of adversity. (JCO/PIA-NCR)
