‘Disney princess’
A ‘Disney princess’ is how Antabo used to describe herself in her younger days. On social media, being labeled as a 'Disney princess' implies that a woman is being treated in a special manner, such as being spared from any burdensome responsibilities or work.
“Dili mi datu, although naay naka-eskwela namo. Hinatagan lang gyud ko perme,” Antabo shared.
(We’re not wealthy, although there are some of us who went to school. I am just well provided.)
As the youngest in a family of 10 siblings, Antabo led a sheltered life free of responsibilities as her older siblings took on the obligations of augmenting their family’s finances. She was free to focus on her studies and grow up a happy-go-lucky kid.
She looked up to her older brother who was a police officer and he inspired her to follow in his footsteps.
However, after graduating from high school with honors, Antabo enrolled in nursing school at her brother’s urging. But eventually, she convinced him that she would fare better being a police officer.
“Nakita gud nako niya how disciplined he was,” she said.
(I really saw how disciplined he was.)
Motherhood
Just as she was about to shift to Criminology, Antabo learned that she was pregnant. This put a dent in her plans and she had to stop her studies. After giving birth, she landed a job as a sales lady in a local bakeshop. Antabo realized how difficult life is as she had to earn money for herself and her child.
“Naningkamot ko para ma-sustain akong bata even at least pang-diaper man lang,” she said.
(I worked hard so I could earn enough even just to be able to buy diapers for my baby.)
She had been striving to earn a living for almost a year when her dream came knocking again. Her policeman brother gave her one more chance and offered to pay for her studies so she could go back to school and finish her Criminology course.
Antabo grabbed the chance and juggled the duties of being a mother and a student at the same time. She also took on odd jobs on the side to sustain her personal needs.
After graduation, she immediately took both the licensure and National Police Commission (NAPOLCOM) examinations, and passed both tests.
By July 2016, she was finally accepted into the Philippine National Police (PNP) and underwent rigorous training.
“Pareho ra tanan ang training ma-lalaki ka man o ma-babaye,” said Antabo as she recalled those times where being a woman was not an exemption to undertaking challenging tasks in the police force.
(The training is all the same whether you are a man or a woman.)
After almost eight years in service, 36-year-old Antabo has proven her strong commitment to public service, while juggling the responsibilities of being a law enforcer, a wife, and a mother of three.
Multi-awarded police officer
Antabo was twice awarded Outstanding Family Juvenile and Gender Sensitivity (FJGS) by the Cebu Provincial Police Police Office (CPPO) in 2021 and 2022.
She was also recognized as Best Police Non-Commissioned Officer (PNCO) for the third quarter of 2023 and won the ‘Ginang Asturias’ of 2023. She was also featured as the Police Officer of the Week by the CPPO during their Women’s Week 2024.